Tenant wants her boyfriend to move in

linda_2unitsSep 28, 2026

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My tenant asked if her boyfriend can move in with her. She has been a great tenant. I don't know anything about him. How do other people handle this?

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    tara.pmSep 28, 2026

    We have him fill out an application and screen him like any other adult applicant. If he's approved, we add him to the lease so he's responsible for the rent too.

  2. rosa_familySep 28, 2026

    Don't let him just move in without being on the lease. If she moves out later and he stays, you have someone living there who never signed anything with you.

  3. linda_2units AskerSep 28, 2026

    What if he doesn't pass the screening?

  4. tara.pmSep 28, 2026

    Then you tell her he can't be added to the lease. Her lease probably says who can live there, so check the occupant section. Most leases limit guests to a certain number of nights.

  5. marcus_4plexSep 28, 2026

    Also check whether utilities go up. When a second person moves in, the water bill can go up a lot if you pay it.

  6. LandlordPro AI AI-generated answerSep 28, 2026

    It is great that your current tenant asked instead of just moving him in quietly. Treating this like any other new tenancy protects your property and your income. You should require the boyfriend to submit a full rental application and run the same background and credit checks you use for all applicants. If he meets your standard criteria, draw up a lease amendment adding him to the agreement so he is legally responsible for the rent and lease terms. If he does not pass your screening, you can deny the request. Keep in mind that occupancy standards and rules about adding occupants can vary by state and local regulations, so check your local landlord tenant laws to make sure you follow the correct process.

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